my mind: Win or Lose

my mind: Win or Lose: Tell me, when you were born, did you lose or win? neither, RIGHT..?...you did not even know what is winning and what is losing....until ...

Win or Lose

Tell me, when you were born, did you lose or win? neither, RIGHT..?...you did not even know what is winning and what is losing....until you grew up, had your sense of understanding the world, reacting to it, and conditioning yourself when to be sad or happy.....

A time came in your life, when comparison was the most common task you used to do daily, (good/bad, clearn/dirty, high/low, exciting/disinteresting)...all which lead you to a state of dual mind.  A state of mind where you fluctuate between all these opposites depending on your external circumstances..

The more you try to control others and that is happening around your world, the higher the chances of getting into duality and a perpetual state of winning and losing.  As you think you have won, someone else thought he/she has lost, so everyone is the same state all the time...

Which means things which are going to perish tomorrow or which are transient have the tendency to take you away from your basic nature and dwell into this duality.  Things which may or may not be with you have the potential to distract you from your basic nature..so then what is temporary and what is permanent?

Money, influence, position, material things, are short living..Nothing compared to your brain, values, energy, and perseverance.......if we focus on what lasts forever with us, we will not dwell into losing or winning (the result). Giving constantly what you can share..is another way to be in a single state..a state of nonduality..We will just be in a state of constant bliss as our focus is now on action and not the result..SO YOU NEITHER WIN, NOR LOSE...YOU JUST KEEP DOING..........

my mind: Potential unrealized

my mind: Potential unrealized: Both Happiness and Success are relative terms: No one wants to become a "begger/kirayan wala/cobler" -the unknown... All want ...

Potential unrealized

Both Happiness and Success are relative terms:

No one wants to become a "begger/kirayan wala/cobler" -the unknown...
All want to become like Amitabh | Ambani | Tata | Mary Kom-Known.. but you "may" be happy or "may not"
but yes! I am sure if you do these things, you will definitely be at peach, happy, and feel success within you and around..whatever you become............

1. Love your work whether it is job or business..even if you are sweeper, love sweeping..if you love truck driving, love it..and GIVE Your best, nothing less..while doing it..
2.  To lover our work is "our decision"..so who is stopping you..if you don't like your current work or job, quit, sit and think what you like to do, and do that..period...
3. Life is a movie...you are born and living to play your part...so find out what role you want to play while you are alive..THAT's your job to find out..no one will do it for you! if someone will, others will do it at the cost of your FREEDOM..don't allow that to happen.  You are the one who will decide what ROLE you want to play..and once you know Play it with full energy, dedication and smartness..dont stop......
4. You have ONE LIFE..limited no of hours, limited no of days, limited no of months, and years..time will fly and you will be on your death bed..There is no point in dying with regrets..and complaining.."i could not do this because...blah blah..I did not do this...blah blah..Realize that when time is limited, you need to quickly decide, take control of your life, and start doing what you love to do..and keep moving..Because all of us are  daily creating and shaping our lives..by our actions..
5. Be discipline with your life on a daily basis, as I said, you need to work towards what role you have fixed..day in day out..make sure your LIFE IS AN ART..(NOT A MACHINE) perfected daily..Decide how much to sleep and how much to eat..let me tell you sleeping and eating decides your success...
6. Keep teaching others "WHAT YOU HAVE MASTERED" and spread the knowledge around.  You will find millions of people trying to find out how you mastered your craft...and what a immense satisfaction it will bring to your life.

So even if you are not famous, not rich, but love your work, your job, is happy with what you do daily, who cares...............you are BEST, you know..

my mind: motivation to lift yourself up

my mind: motivation to lift yourself up: 1. Be responsible for your actions. 2. Stop blaming others. 3. Try again and again, like a child. 4. View problems as opportunities. 5....

motivation to lift yourself up

1. Be responsible for your actions.
2. Stop blaming others.
3. Try again and again, like a child.
4. View problems as opportunities.
5. Treat activities as hobbies.
6. Live as if it is your last day.

Cheers!
Dr Nayan